Joyce was the first Korean girl I have been with. I met her on an online dating site called ClicktoAsia.
My main profile picture was a total douche bag photo. I put a ton of gel in my hair to spike it up. I wore a white V-neck and as many chains, pendants, and dog tags as I could around my neck. I slouched into the couch, and stared into the camera with the “I don’t give a fuck” look. The picture actually worked because Joyce told me that was what she fell for.
For our first date we decided to meet at the mall. She brought her little Maltese in a freaking doggy purse. WTF? In my mind I was thinking, here we go, an annoying, entitled princess.
Yes, the dog really bothered me. She even brought it into the theater as we watched the movie. She promised me the dog would not make a noise, and she didn’t. But overall Joyce was very pleasant, laughed easily. And it helped I like the way she looked. She was petite, had nice thin legs, and a good girl look.
I cannot remember who paid for the date. I probably did, but it was a non issue.
On our second date, she ended up in my apartment. We started making out on the couch. Then she said, “Take me to your bedroom!”. All right! That was easy. I thought to myself. I picked her up, and tossed her onto my bed. Clothes came off, and off we went at it.
Joyce was cute, but not the most beautiful girl I have dated, but sex with her was amazing. Something about her personality, the lack of inhibition, and her loud uncontrollable scream during sex really turned me on. Some girls just scream in a way that really, really got me going. Maybe it is that combination of slight exhibitionism and the fear of neighbor come knocking that made the sex so intense. She is one of the few girl that I could have sex with 4 times in one night. As I re-awoke in the middle of the night, my hand would mysteriously ended up between her thighs. For some reason she was always moist, and ready for more, and so was I.
Well, enough about the great sex. Let’s talk about her personality. Aside from her dog urinating on my kitchen floor, I got along with her really well. As I mentioned before, Joyce likes to laugh, and she was just overall very easy going. Just to provide more details, Joyce was born in Korea, but actually spent part of her life in China, before moving to the United States. I am sure that has some influence on how she behaves.
She invited me over to her place several times and cooked me bulgogi (korean BBQ). Her place was tiny, so I would eat dinner on the couch. After dinner she never asked me to help her clean up. I just smiled at her, and asked, “what’s for dessert?” She would put on the shortest dress without panties, straddle over me or just kneel down between my legs and go to work. Ok, ok, I kept writing about sex. Honestly, the relationship was very sexually charged, but in a very light hear-ted, fun, enthusiastic way.
Eventually our fun fling ended. I think it may be because I went on a long trip oversea, and just never picked up the momentum after I came back. We did hook up one more time a few months later, but by then she had moved 1 hour away. I just never bothered with that commute again.